Mahler
U simbiozi, majka i dijete se ponašaju i funkcioniraju kao da su jedan omnipotentni sistem - dvostruka jedinka s jednom zajedničkom granicom. Povezanost, s druge strane, znači odvojenost dviju individua a istovremeno i njihov spoj u treći virtualni prostor...
Margaret Mahler
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Horney
Ja znam za tamu ljudske duše i znam za tamu cijelog svijeta. Vjerujem da ono što daje svjetlo jednoj ljudskoj duši može dati svjetlo i cijelom svijetu...
Karen Horney
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Kohut
Postoji općenito mišljenje da je u self psihologiji uloga agresije u drugom planu. Ipak, moje iskustvo govori da niti jedna druga terapeutska metoda ne pokreće tako snažne i duboko ukorijenjene osjećaje bijesa...
Heinz Kohut
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Benjamin
Intersubjektivni, empatijski odnos čini ravnoteža prepoznavanja i destrukcije. Unutrašnja fantazija uvijek uništava i proždire eksternu realnost; "Dok te volim, ja te istovremeno uništavam u svojim fantazijama"... Jessica Benjamin Komentari...
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Gadamer
Prepoznati sugovornika u dijalogu ne znači afirmirati svoj stav po svaku cijenu, nego biti transformiran u osjećaj zajedništva sa sugovornikom pri čemu uopće ne moramo zadržati svoj stav......
Hans-Georg Gadamer
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Beebe
Odmah po njegovom rođenju, majka s djetetom ulazi u zajedničku empatijsku rezonanciju. Oboje ih povezuje spoznaja da; "ti znaš da ja znam da ti znaš"...
Beatrice Beebe
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Ornstein
Ne postoji drugačiji način da analist prepozna i prihvati svoj utjecaj na klijenta (što je u osnovi vrsta selfobjektnog odnosa) osim da kontinuirano pokušava decentrirati sebe od svojih reakcija; jedino se tako analist može pojaviti u klijentovom subjektivnom iskustvu... Anna Ornstein Komentari...
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Orange
Mi, self-psiholozi, poneseni željom da otkrijemo i budemo blizu klijentovog iskustva, često zaboravljamo da smo i mi tamo. Tako naša želja da otkrijemo klijentovo iskustvo, iz njegove vlastite perspektive, može nas navesti da zaboravimo kako i u kojoj mjeri mi sami oblikujemo to iskustvo... Donna Orange Komentari...
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Atwood
A contemporary debate in psychoanalysis is anchored at a personal level by widely contrasting attitudes toward what is possible in human life: Cartesian thinking, which posits the isolation of the mind and the duality of mind and body, arises from an unconscious attitude of resignation and even cynicism as to the possibility of healing a breach in relatedness; certain trends in post-Cartesian thought, positing interdependence and approaching mind-body relations phenomenologically, reflect an attitude of hope that sustaining relations to others can be restored and that personal fragmentation can thereby be brought together in an embracing unity... George Atwood Komentari...
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Stolorow
If the notion of analytic neutrality is grasped as a grandiose defensive illusion to be given up and mourned, with what shall it be replaced? What is an alternative stance appropriate for the analytic situation recognized as a dyadic intersubjective system of reciprocal mutual influence, to which the organizing activities of both participants make ongoing, codetermining contributions? We have characterized this stance as one of empathic-introspective inquiry. Such inquiry seeks to illuminate the principles unconsciously organizing the patient's experience (empathy), the principles unconsciously organizing the analyst's experience (introspection), and the oscillating psychological field created by the interplay between the two (intersubjectivity). Robert Stolorow Komentari...
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Buber
 | | When two people relate to each other authentically and humanly, God is the electricity that surges between them...
Martin Buber
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Levinas
 | | To recognize the Other is to recognize a hunger. To recognize the Other is to give. But it is to give to the master, to the lord, to him whom one approaches as “You” in a dimension of height. Meaning is the face of the Other... Emmanuel Levinas Komentari... |
Laing
| | What we call our self we know to be always changing, impermanent, transient, but still we persist in this hallucination. The transcendental perspective is both immanent and transcendental. So one must simultaneously get into oneself and out of one’s self... R.D. Laing Komentari... |
Kohut
The full integration of his ideals may allow the analyst of the coming generation to become the pacesetter for a change in the hierarchy of values of all the branches of science concerned with man, through a shift of emphasis from a truth-and-reality morality toward the idealization of empathy, from pride in clear vision and uncompromising rationality to pride in the scientifically controlled expansion of the self. Scientific empathy, the broadening and strengthening of this bridge toward the other human being, will be the highest ideal... Heinz Kohut Komentari... |
Tagore
 | | In love, at one of its poles you find the personal, and at the other the impersonal. At one you have the positive assertion — Here I am; at the other the equally strong denial — I am not. Without this ego what is love? And again, with only this ego how can love be possible? Rabindranath Tagore Komentari... |
Anais
 | | Each friend represents a world in us, a world possibly not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born... Anaïs Nin Komentari... |
Bradbury
 | | We are the miracle of force and matter making itself over into imagination and will. Incredible. The Life Force experimenting with forms. You for one. Me for another. The Universe has shouted itself alive. We are one of the shouts... Ray Bradbury Komentari... |
Klein
 | | One of the many interesting and surprising experiences of the beginner in child analysis is to find in even very young children a capacity for insight which is often far greater than that of adults...
Melanie Klein
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Yeats
 | | Položio sam svoje snove tebi pod noge; koračaj nježno, jer hodaš po mojim snovima...
W. B. Yeats
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Rilke
 | | For one human being to love another: that is perhaps the most difficult of our tasks; the ultimate, the last test and proof, the work for which all other work is but preparation... Rainer Maria Rilke Komentari... |
Rejection
 | | Listen, kid, love is the only chance for happiness you'll ever get in this life, and if you're going to let a little thing like rejection stand in your way, baby, you might as well stay right there on the ground, because people are going to be walking over you for the rest of your life... Two Stupid Dogs Komentari... |
Bellow
 | | Goodness is achieved not in a vacuum, but in the company of other men, attended by love... Saul Bellow
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Anne Frank
I keep my ideals, because in spite of everything I still believe that people are really good at heart... Anne Frank
Glass
Self-esteem comes from your parents. Somebody tells you that you can do whatever you want, and you believe them... Philip Glass
Mandela
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.
It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us.
We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous?
Actually, who are you not to be? - Nelson Mandela
Freud
The first human who hurled an insult instead of a stone was the founder of civilization... Sigmund Freud
Bettelheim
The difference between the plight of prisoners in a concentration camp and the conditions which lead to autism and schizophrenia in children is, of course, that the child has never had a previous chance to develop much of a personality... Bruno Bettelheim
Bettelheim
As Anna Freud remarked, the toddler who wanders off into some other aisle, feels lost, and screams anxiously for his mother never says "I got lost," but accusingly says "You lost me!" It is a rare mother who agrees that she lost him! she expects her child to stay with her; in her experience it is the child who has lost track of the mother, while in the child's experience it is the mother who has lost track of him. Each view is entirely correct from the perspective of the individual who holds it... Bruno Bettelheim
Bion
... until finally two objects can be brought together in a way which leaves each object with its intrinsic qualities intact and yet able, by their conjunction, to produce a new mental object... Wilfred Bion
Schrödinger
The world is given to me only once, not one existing and one perceived. Subject and object are only one. The barrier between them cannot be said to have broken down as a result of recent experience in the physical sciences, for this barrier does not exist... Erwin Schrödinger
Heisenberg
There is a fundamental error in separating the parts from the whole, the mistake of atomizing what should not be atomized. Unity and complementarity constitute reality... Werner Heisenberg
Lacan
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What does it matter how many lovers you have if none of them gives you the universe? Jacques Lacan
Chardin
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The universe as we know it is a joint product of the observer and the observed... Teilhard de Chardin
Levinas
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If one could possess, grasp, and know the other, it would not be other... Emmanuel Levinas
Winnicott
What does the baby see when he or she looks at the mother's face? I am suggesting that, ordinarily, what the baby sees is himself or herself. In other words the mother is looking at the baby and what she looks like is related to what she sees there... D.W. Winnicott
Dewy
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If duality comes from oneness and illusion from duality then illusion owes its being to the oneness that created duality... J.J. Dewey
Winnicott
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It is joy to be hidden, but disaster not to be found... D. W. Winnicott
Pearls
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You are you and I am I. And if by chance we find each other, it’s beautiful. If not, it can’t be helped... Fritz Pearls
Winnicott
It is in the space between inner and outer world, which is also the space between people -- the transitional space -- that intimate relationships and creativity occur... D.W. Winnicott
Sartre
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In love, one and one are one. Jean-Paul Sartre
Montgomery
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The child crying, 'Watch me, Watch me,' is not begging for attention; he is pleading for existence itself... M.R. Montgomery
Stolorow
Isolated minds are Descartesmentalized... Robert Stolorow
Kohut
There is never any need – and by never, I mean never – there is never any need to be artificially traumatic. Simply to give the best you can give is traumatic enough, because you cannot fulfill the real needs...
H. Kohut
Goethe
Način na koji vidite ljude ogleda se u načinu na koji se prema njima odnosite, a način na koji se odnosite prema njima je ono što oni postaju... J. W. Goethe
Kohut
An uninterrupted tension arc is established from basic ambitions, via basic talent and skills, toward basic ideals. The tension arc is the dynamic essence of the complete nondefective self; it is a conceptualization of the structure whose establishment makes possible a creative, productive, fulfilling life... Heinz Kohut
cummings
Mi ne vjerujemo u sebe sve dok netko ne otkrije da je to duboko u nama nesto vrijedno, vrijedno paznje, vrijedno slusanja, sveto na dodir. Jednom kad povjerujemo u sebe mozemo riskirati znatizelju, cudjenje, spontanost i sve drugo sto jest ljudski duh... e. e. cummings
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